Those who humble themselves will be exalted
By Marianne Delorey
A large part of our success in aging well has to do with how we cope with changes in our bodies. All...
Moving into a long term care facility
By Micha Shalev
Part one of this series appeared in the April issue of the Fifty Plus Advocate. Part two appeared in the May issue...
No Place Like Home
By Marianne Delorey, Ph.D.
“Home is heaven for beginners.” – Charles Henry Parkhurst
A few years ago, my brother and I were playing a game with...
Cohousing another option for some people as they age
By David Wilkening, Contributing Writer
REGION – When Julie Wittes Schlack and her husband Mark Schlack were in their 50s they didn’t consider themselves old....
Not always easy enforcing rules in housing community
By Marianne Delorey©
I’ve been in property management for most of my adult life. It is a great job and one that has provided me...
Now what? Finding community among strangers
By Marianne Delorey
Moving day has come, your toothbrush was swept into one of the many boxes before you. You start unpacking the boxes, picking...
Is discretion truly the better part of valor?
I sat down recently with four card players. It turns out, only one was still driving. There seemed to be a common thread among the others – in all three cases, it seemed like they all had stories where driving had been taken away from them in a seemingly underhanded fashion. One lady recently moved back to Massachusetts from Florida. Her son told her to sell her car and they’d find her one up here. Well, conveniently, finding a new car has not become a priority.
Holidays are occasions to check parents’ wellbeing
By Nancy J Coulter
The holidays are quickly approaching — a time of year when most of us choose to visit with family and friends....
The challenges of aging
Two well-known social psychologists named Alter and Oppenheimer did an experiment in which they had groups of people take a quick, three-question intelligence test called the CRT. This particular test is rigged so that the most obvious answer is wrong. Eighty-three percent of people miss at least one question. However, the researchers found when they made the test harder, people did better. They did this by writing the test in a font that was difficult to read. The conclusion the researchers drew from the experiment is that making people slow down their reading made them make fewer mistakes. In this case, less speed made for more processing time, which in turn led to more careful answers.
Our Roots are One
By Marianne Delorey, Ph.D.
“A tree’s beauty lies in its branches, but its strength lies in its roots” – Mashona Dhilwayo
Meet Karen and Priscilla, sisters...